Afshan Azad - Padma Patil in the Harry Potter films - was assaulted by her brother who threatened to kill her (click on image for the news): "Marry a Muslim or you die!". "Sort your daughter out! She's a slag!". The father got involved: he said "Just kill her!" (this was disputed in court). The mother and sister-in-law get involved: the family discussed what to do with her. Apparently her father suggested sending her back to Bangladesh for an arranged marriage and her mother called her a "prostitute". The brother then said: "I'm going to kill you. I'm actually going to kill you".
Is he an obsessed or an ordinary Muslim? This is not a unique situation; a family row is 'normal' in any race or religion; a Muslim family row isn't odd; an honour killing or an arranged marriage isn't that rare an occurrence; [edited 5:50P.M.] however, what would Sayeeda say?